I'm Hat, I'm an optimistic, positive lady with a good (very dark!) sense of humour. I like going for walks in the countryside, going to festivals, contemplating existential matters, sitting in the sunshine, drinking spiced rum, interesting conversations, getting tattooed, not necessarily in that order.
I love it when people put their own marks on their appearance to enhance what they were born with. Attraction for me is about looking at the physical expressions of personality that people put into their appearance. Why not?! What I really find attractive is a good looking tattooed guy with a well groomed beard, shaved head with dreads or longer hair, especially if that guy looks after himself. Pretty much Ragnor from Vikings... maybe mixed with Khal Drogo. I'm particular sure, but that's the type of guy that does things to me! Physicalities aside; intelligence, humour, manners, and joie de vivre are also essential qualities.
What I'm looking for on this site is a secondary regular boyfriend to meet up with from time to time. For me, being alternative isn't just about what you look like but is also a way of life. I'm in a fully committed relationship with a beautiful guy who provides me with all my essential needs. I'm just looking for some extras because life is interesting when you explore different things. He is also doing the same, we are absolutely honest, with each other and with people we meet.
